Same as the old saying goes: men doesn't like women who are easy to get. So true. I'm more certain now that it isn't really a good thing for women to have dozens of boyfriends in their young life. It gives the notion that she is easy to get, and an easy one to throw away. With all her relationships that have gone nowhere, it shows irresponsibility in handling (supposed-to-be) serious matters such as that.

But men, you're not off the hook yet. Even women doesn't like the "easy" breed of men. Those kind who easily falls in love, easily falls out of love, easy flirts, and are easily manipulated. Such men has a brain the size of a coconut shell (in my opinion) because they only think about themselves, and what satisfies them. They are the ones who are emotionally-driven and usually lack focus. One gets lost with what they really want because they are not even sure of what they want themselves. They only live in the present and doesn't consider the graveness of the future. They let their feelings guide their decisions, that's why in the end, they blow up one relationship after another.

So it isn't true what a college professor once said that women who never had a boyfriend are pathetic because they have no idea what they want. In fact, I believe they know exactly what they want that's why they don't just jump into any potential relationship that comes their way. They don't ride with the wind, unsure of where it would take them. They don't saddle with the bandwagon, just so they could count themselves "in" to the growing numbers of couples. Instead, they use their brains and make sure that this relationship is something worth keeping for. They may appear very picky but they are surprisingly the ones who grow and become the best wives in the future: families intact and homes flooded with love.

But more than just using their rational and logical reasoning, they also use their ears. They know whom to listen to for sound advice and they know how to obey. What good is sound advice if there would be no application, right? And always, the best source of great advice is the Bible. It is God's voice written out for you to keep and look back to. Just a few weeks ago, I just finished the reading the book of Proverbs and it speaks so much about a wife of noble character; she is the pride of her husband and her value is far more precious than rubies.

People will always have different opinions on this widely argumentative theme of relationships. But my point is this (and i'm sure many agrees): Don't be too easy.